People settle for basic things in different aspects of their life every day. We sign up for the job we hate, be friends with the people we don’t vibe with, and stay in the family who stressed us out.
We should not settle for what life gives us. Create the life you have always dreamed about, work hard for your goals and achieve inner peace. Your life is not a problem you have to solve. It is a journey you have to experience and enjoy. Very few people realized this thing that people who face failures in life are those who were so close to success when they gave up.
Many of us are afraid of change, failures, and taking risks. These are the reasons why people learn to settle in life instead of creating the life they want. Creating the life you want is not about being having unrealistic goals or perfection. It is more about making a change in your life that makes you happy and not about just drifting along in life, complaining about it. It is so easy to settle for the life you have than going out of your comfort zone.
Always remember that you get only one life and if you do it right, once is enough. You don’t have to waste it on living upon other people’s expectations. Don’t be trapped by dogma. Living according to what other people think will not do you any good.
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We all want to be successful but nobody wants to do the hard work that requires being on the top. You have to work hard if you want to achieve big things in life. At the end of the day, When you put all those efforts into something, eventually your labor will pay off. Just don’t give up and keep working hard to achieve that goal.
Even though life throws at us some situations we cannot control but we still have the choice to be positive and live the life we want. There is always work that is left to be done and some obligations to be fulfilled. But our works fill a large part of our life and the only way to be satisfied in your life is to believe what you are doing is right. When we love what we do, work does not seem like a burden and we are happy and contented with it. And if you have not found a passion yet to follow, keep looking and don’t settle for less.
Our life is like a coin, we can spend it the way we want but we only get to spend it once. We all have brains so it can take us in any direction we choose to go. The size of our life depends on the amount of courage we have got. Because many of us don’t have the courage to follow our dreams and live our lives in fear, settling for the ordinary.
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Many of us also suffer from a tremendous amount of self-doubts and self-worth issues which makes us difficult to believe in ourselves and make us think we are not good enough. There is an abundance of everything out there but many of us have so low self-esteem that prevents us from asking and going after it.
Sometimes we live a life we don’t want but we are so comfortable with it that we don’t want to leave that place and start looking out for new options because that will make us feel uncomfortable. It is more of becoming like a habit. If we have to live a life we want, we have to create it and to create that life, we have to fight ourselves because it is us and our habits that are stopping us from where we want to be.
We all have been through a stage in life, where we are so frustrated with it, complaining and doing nothing about it, and don’t even realize that the minute we settle for less than what we deserve, we will get even less than what we have settled for.
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